So, you’re wanting to have a child-free wedding but you’re scared about what your friends and family might say? In addition to that, you’re probably wondering what is the easiest way to tell people they can’t bring their kids without offending them. Look no further! We’ve got some tips here for you!
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Be specific when addressing your invitations
Make sure you specifically say who is invited. If it is your best friend from high school and his wife, say “Mr. and Mrs. John Doe”. Do not say, “The Doe’s”, this will imply that the whole family is invited. On the inside of the invitation, list their first names just to make it double clear.
2. Make the RSVP clear
“So excited to see you there!
Please RSVP by June, 18th, 2023
We have two (2) spots reserved in your name.”
This way, they (hopefully) get the memo that only the two of them are invited, and not their children.
3. Straight up tell them
If you’re a very straightforward person, just tell them! Saying things like this make it polite, but still very clear:
“Please join us for an adult-only ceremony and reception!”
“Due to limited space, adults only please, unless specifically stated on your invitation.”
“The couple requests that this is an adults-only reception.”
“To allow everyone a night of relaxation and fun, we ask that no children attend the reception. Have a nice night off!”
“Children of immediate family only, please.”
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There are so many ways to tell people to leave their kids at home, and it doesn’t have to be awkward! Depending on your crowd, make it funny! Tell them to hire a babysitter and have some fun! You know your crew the best, so say whatever feels the most comfortable for you.
Have fun at your child-free wedding!
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